Thursday, November 14, 2013

So. Absolutely. Written by Prof. Stephanie Packer




So have you noticed this new usage of "so" abroad in the land?   I call it a faux sequitor, sort of the conversational equivalent of duct tape.

Consider the following, changed only slightly from an actual morning news conversation:
TV Pundit :  "Good morning. You've written a book on the Spanish Civil War."

Author:  "So I argue that Ernest Hemingway was really snitching on his comrades."

Instead of returning the greeting or engaging in small talk, our author goes straight for the big talk.  The money line, the bottom line, I believe it is called in your earth-talk.   "I won't waste your time," the author seems to be faux-modestly saying.  Meanwhile, she is cloaking her pitch in the mantle of bogus inevitability: "X therefore Y:  The rain fell steadily so the grass was soaked." 
But this pundit’s  X does not lead to this author’s Y!

The antecedent "Spanish Civil War" dos not lead to the inevitable conclusion "Ernest Hemingway snitched on his comrades,"  a faux accusation, by the way, which no one, including the hypothetical author, has ever to my knowledge made. 

 But notice the implications. "So" gets high-jacked from its legitimate usage as a logical cause-effect conjunction or an intensifier ("He was so happy!") to something downright sneaky.  No causal chain has been established, yet the speaker establishes unearned credibility by the misappropriation of "So."

Yes, the speaker, for this slippery usage occurs almost exclusively in speech.  Speech makes implications harder to freeze and analyze than does writing.  The conversation moves on.  The faux sequitor has done its low-down work.

Almost exclusively in speech.  The usage in fiction has an old and honorable function, where the author is aiming at the same faux veracity.  "So I'm standing outside the 7-11 drinking my coffee when this babe hauls off and socks me in the jaw."

But that's fiction.  It's legit.  You're entering a world where the only real danger is to not be taken for a ride.  

The speaker, I posit, is taking us on another kind of ride entirely. 

And what follows the faux sequitor of the so-sayers?  Faux graciousness, evidently. 

TV Pundit:  “Thanks for joining us today.”

Author: "Absolutely."

Absolutely???   

"My pleasure," damn it.  "You’re quite welcome.”

Where do these so-isms start?  Where will they end?   I am so not going there.

So that’s another story.

4 comments:

Karen said...

So, I absolutely appreciate your sense of right and wrong...and your humor! ~Karen

Karen said...

So, I absolutely appreciate your sense of right and wrong...and your humor. ~Karne

javier.duenas said...

This use of "so" is an example of what linguists call "hedging" in the study of pragmatics. It can arguably serve a number of purposes, but mostly, hedges are used to soften the impact of a statement slightly, draw the listener in and make him/her more comfortable with the speaker, and/or to provide a type of "buffering" (to put it into computer jargon) where the mouth says something while the mind organizes its thoughts. I've noticed that the use of "so" as a linguistic hedge is more widespread among academics (or people with college degrees), typically in informal contexts such as conversations and interviews. Have you noticed the same, or would you say it is present in other populations?

javier.duenas said...

This use of "so" is an example of what linguists call "hedging" in pragmatics. It can serve a number of purposes such as softening the impact of a statement slightly, drawing the listener in and making him/her more comfortable with the speaker, and/or to providing a type of "buffering" (to put it into computer jargon) where the mouth says something while the mind organizes its thoughts. I've noticed that the use of "so" as a linguistic hedge is more widespread among academics (or people with college degrees), typically in informal contexts such as conversations and interviews. Have you noticed the same, or would you say it is present in other populations?